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Stay involved, even when you can’t be there

For adult children and close friends staying involved with a parent through memory changes or a move closer to family, especially when updates and responsibilities are spread across households or miles. It’s also useful when illness, recovery, a move or another change interrupts familiar routines and support.

You don’t need a big update to stay close. Share a little moment, join a conversation, or make a plan to spend time together.

  1. Start a circle

    For yourself, or for someone you love with their agreement. Give it any name that fits, like “Alongside Mom” or “Alongside Maya.” No reason or end date needed.

  2. Invite your people

    Family, friends, neighbors and other trusted people. The preferences of the person at the center decide who belongs and what each person sees.

  3. Share in one place

    Your circle has a private home for updates, conversations, photos and plans. Replies stay with the post they answer, and a plan can grow out of a conversation. You choose who sees each thing, and each person chooses how to hear about it. Reading along is welcome too; there’s nothing to keep up with.

  4. Follow through together

    Ask for help with a date and time. Someone offers, you confirm them, and Plans shows who’s doing what. An offer or a suggestion isn’t a commitment until it’s confirmed.

  5. Add help if you need it

    Optional hourly services, not subscriptions. Assist ($30/hour) is a little help from a real person: during launch, Whit personally helps research and coordinate transportation and travel, with your approval. Care ($70/hour) is consultation with a licensed physician assistant, subject to clinical eligibility, consent and provider availability. Neither is available as a paid service yet.

A simpler view, for anyone who prefers it

My Day shows today’s date, the next confirmed plan, a familiar labeled photo, and three large buttons: My people, My pictures and Today’s plans. No feeds, pop-ups or quizzes.

Family can add their own recorded voice to a photo. Alongside never creates or imitates anyone’s voice.

Texting, included

Coming soon to pilot circles

For anyone who’d rather text, each circle has its own number. A text goes into the same conversations as the website, for the people chosen.

The number is under “Ways to share” on the circle’s home page. Texting it isn’t a group text: Alongside checks that the text came from a member’s verified phone, asks who should see it when that isn’t clear (and whether it’s a reply to a conversation), checks the wording, and then shares it only with the people chosen, the same way as the website.

Includes 250 shared text credits each month. One short text sent or received uses one credit, for each person it goes to. Everything on the website is included and doesn’t use credits. Circles in the private pilot aren’t charged.

Sample conversation

Privacy and communication

Thoughtful communication, with choices that stay yours.

Alongside may suggest rewording a message before it’s sent. You can also choose who contacts you and block unwanted messages.

Choose who sees it

Share with your whole circle or selected people. See your audience before you post.

Ask before sharing someone else’s photos, messages, or personal updates outside the circle.

Choose how you hear

Set your notification preferences and pause updates whenever you need.

By email, website only, or by text where your circle’s number is set up.

Choose who contacts you

Decide who can message you directly, block unwanted messages, and report anything that worries you.

Sample screen · Before sending

Would you like to reword this?

This message may sound hurtful.

Illustration only. A message flagged for a possible threat or abuse isn’t sent as written; it can be edited or reviewed instead.

Questions about messages
Will Alongside change my words?
No. It may ask whether you’d like to reword something. You can edit it, go back, or send it as written.
What about threats or abuse?
A message flagged for a possible threat, targeted abuse or harassment isn’t delivered. The sender is told and can edit it or request a review. It’s reviewed by someone the person it’s for has chosen, or by the Alongside team; the sender can’t approve their own message. If no one is available yet, it stays held. Nothing is released just because time passes, and a decision can be challenged once.
Who can message me directly?
Anyone in your circle, or only the people you choose. Direct messages from anyone else wait for you to look at them first. This is separate from who sees what you share.
What does blocking do?
A blocked person can’t send you direct messages, and you get no notifications from them. You may still see what they share with the whole circle unless you mute them too.
Can someone help me?
If you’d like, choose one trusted person to help manage your messages. You’re shown what they can see and do before agreeing. They can’t read your other private conversations. Being an administrator or paying for the membership never gives anyone this role.
What’s checked?
Written words in English, one message at a time, with built-in rules; an additional automated check is used where it’s been set up. Other languages, photos and voice recordings aren’t checked. Disagreement, medical talk, describing what happened to you, and asking for help aren’t treated as abuse. Automatic checks can make mistakes and may miss hurtful content. They don’t detect emergencies or guarantee anyone’s protection. In an emergency, call 911.

Pricing

Start your circle.

Your Circle

$249 personal setup · $9.99/month

One private space for your people, including 250 shared text credits each month.

  • One membership covers the circle.
  • Invited participants don’t each pay.
  • Taking part on the website doesn’t use text credits.
  • Someone else can pay for the membership or give it as a gift.

Paying for or giving a membership never grants access to private content or administrative authority. Gift purchases aren’t open yet.

What personal setup includes
  • Establishing your circle
  • Configuring invitations and privacy choices
  • Practicing the core features together
  • A brief follow-up afterward

How text credits are counted

Your first payment is $249 setup plus the first month’s $9.99: $258.99 before applicable tax. Then $9.99 each month until canceled. Paid circle memberships aren’t open yet; circles in the private pilot are free.

Create your circle

A little extra help, when you need it.

  • Assist · $30/hour

    A little help from a real person. During launch, Whit personally helps research and coordinate transportation and travel, with your approval.

    Whit coordinates. He doesn’t personally drive, deliver, or provide hands-on, emergency or medical care.

    Not available yet.

    Ask about Assist
  • Care · $70/hour

    Consultations with a licensed physician assistant, subject to clinical eligibility, consent, and provider availability.

    Not diagnosis, prescribing or emergency care, and not a replacement for the treating medical team. In an emergency, call 911.

    Not available yet.

    Ask about Care

Submitting a request doesn’t authorize work or payment. We confirm the scope, estimated cost and appropriate approval before anything proceeds. Outside provider costs, like rides, tickets or lodging, are separate.

Questions people ask

Who needs a membership?

One circle membership covers one circle: $249 for personal setup, then $9.99 per month. You can start one for yourself, or a family member or close friend can start one for someone they love, with their agreement. Invited people don’t each pay.

Is Alongside only for aging parents?

No. Alongside was built with families navigating a parent’s memory changes in mind, but the same need can arise at any age when illness, recovery, a move or another change interrupts familiar routines and support. You don’t need a diagnosis or a reason to start a circle.

Can I start a circle for myself?

Yes. If it’s your circle, you decide who’s invited, what each person sees and how you hear about things. If a parent or anyone else pays for the membership or gives it as a gift, that doesn’t make them an administrator or give them access to anything private. There’s no location tracking, no expectation to post, and no alerts if you’re quiet for a while.

Who can be in a circle?

Family, friends, neighbors and other trusted people. The person at the center chooses what each person can see.

Does the person at the center have to use it?

No, it’s useful even if they rarely log in. But many do take part: sharing photos, planning a lunch, inviting people and asking for help themselves. The simpler My Day view is there for anyone who prefers it, never switched on because of age or health, and their preferences decide who sees what.

What does personal setup include?

Personal setup includes establishing your circle, configuring invitations and privacy choices, practicing the core features together, and a brief follow-up afterward. Beyond setup, help with the circle membership covers technical issues with the Alongside website. It doesn’t include personal coordination, concierge assistance or clinical support.

How do Assist and Care work?

They’re optional hourly services, not subscriptions or upgrades: Assist at $30/hour and Care at $70/hour. Anyone in the circle can send a request from Plans. Sending a request doesn’t authorize work or payment. We confirm the scope, estimated cost and appropriate approval first, and the person who manages the circle’s membership approves any charges. Outside provider costs are separate. Paid Assist and Care aren’t available yet; for now, a request tells us what you need.

Does Assist send someone to the house?

No. Assist is a real person helping you coordinate; during our launch, that’s Whit. Whit researches options and arranges details with your approval, but doesn’t personally provide rides, hands-on care, emergency help or clinical services. Assist covers coordination time. Transportation, tickets, lodging, and other purchases are separate and require authorization.

What is Care?

Care is consultation, by request, with a licensed physician assistant, subject to clinical eligibility, the person’s own consent and provider availability. Someone else approving the cost doesn’t replace that consent. Care doesn’t include diagnosis, prescribing or emergency care, and doesn’t replace the treating medical team. Care isn’t available yet. In an emergency, call 911.

If I pay, can I see private or medical information?

No. Paying for a membership doesn’t give access to private content or medical information. Access is based on permissions, not payment.

Are rides, flights and hotels included?

No. Outside provider charges such as rides, deliveries, airfare and lodging are separate from the membership and from Assist and Care.

Can someone give Alongside as a gift?

Yes, once gift purchases open. A gift will cover the circle’s setup ($249); the membership is then $9.99 per month, paid by whoever manages it. Anyone can start a circle for someone they love, with their agreement, and invited people don’t each pay. Giving or paying doesn’t give access to private content, and it doesn’t make anyone an administrator or the person at the center.

Is there a set length of time?

No. A circle can support someone through a difficult season or stay useful over time. You don’t need a diagnosis, a reason for joining or an end date.

What’s the difference between changing notifications, leaving, and canceling?

Changing notifications only changes how you hear about new things. Leaving a circle ends your own access right away; what you shared stays with the people you shared it with. Canceling the circle membership is separate: only the person who manages it can cancel, and canceling stops future charges at the end of the paid month. Circles in the private pilot aren’t charged.

How much does it cost?

Your Circle is $249 for personal setup, once, then $9.99 per month for the whole circle, including 250 shared text credits each month. The first payment is $249 setup plus the first month’s $9.99: $258.99 before applicable tax. After that it’s $9.99 each month until canceled. Assist ($30/hour) and Care ($70/hour) are optional and charged only for approved work, once those services open. During the private pilot, circles are free.

How do text credits work?

The circle shares 250 text credits each monthly billing cycle, not each person. One short text sent or received uses one credit, and a text to several people counts once for each person. Long texts, and some characters such as emoji, can use more than one.

Example: One short text received and forwarded to eight people uses nine credits, before confirmations or replies.

Posting, replying, photos, recordings and plans on the website don’t use credits.

When the month’s credits are used up, everyone keeps using the website as usual. Text notices and replies by text pause, and senders are told why, until the allowance resets at the start of the next monthly billing cycle. Unused credits don’t roll over, and texts that weren’t sent aren’t sent later. There are no extra charges.

  • Text notices about something shared: 1 credit per segment, for each person
  • Texts sent to your circle’s number: 1 credit per segment received
  • Alongside’s automatic replies (confirmations and questions): don’t use credits at this time
  • Phone verification codes: never use credits
  • Optional sharing ideas (nudges) by text: don’t use credits at this time; paused at the limit
  • Review notices and message-status updates: don’t use credits at this time
  • Photos sent by text (MMS): don’t use credits at this time
Can I control who reaches me?

Yes. You choose who can message you directly: anyone in your circle, or only the people you pick. You can block someone, mute them, or report a message, and you can choose one trusted person to help manage your messages if you’d like. These choices are yours; someone else can help only with your permission.

Does anyone read our messages?

Only the people each message is shared with. Written messages are checked automatically, and those checks can make mistakes. A message flagged for a possible threat or abuse is held and reviewed by someone the person it’s for chose, or by the Alongside team. The Alongside team also reads reports members send. Paying for a membership or running the circle never gives access to anyone’s messages.

How is Alongside different from a group chat?

Where your circle’s texting number is set up, you can still share a quick update or photo by text. Alongside brings what’s sent to that number or posted on the website into one private space, where photos and plans are easier to find, so everyone can catch up and coordinate without one person repeating everything. You choose who can see what you share and how you hear about new things. Conversations from other messaging apps aren’t imported.

Is texting Alongside the same as a group text?

No. Each circle has its own number. Alongside checks who sent the text, asks who should see it if that isn’t clear, checks the wording, and shares it only with the people chosen, the same way as the website.

Can I sign up today?

Alongside is starting as a small private pilot with invited families. Join the waitlist and we’ll be in touch when we can welcome more circles.

Ask us anything.

Questions about your circle, Assist or Care? Tell us a little about what you’re looking for and we’ll be in touch.

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